Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts

Tuesday, August 26, 2014

The Fire In Marriage


From time to time, we welcome a guest blogger to Key Tov Blog. Today's blogpost is from my ten year old daughter, enjoy!


Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish. So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church. (Ephesians 5:25-29, NKJV)

When my Mom was reading today's bible study, I remembered when I camped at  Matanuska Glacier in Alaska. My Dad started a fire and he gave the fire some dry wood, well that didn't last long! So my Dad went to go find some moist wood, that lasted longer than the dry wood. 

So as it got late, it got colder. My Dad found some rocks and put them behind the fire to reflect the heat. That warmed us up really quick. 

You see, it's almost the same in marriage. If you give your spouse things just to make them happy (like the dry wood) your marriage won't last that long. But if you give your spouse things because you really love them, then that's like the moist wood. It lasts a whole lot longer if you do it because you love them. 

Just do it for the next generation, do it for the world, do it for GOD! 

And when my Dad put stones behind the fire to reflect heat, thats the love. The "left overs" for your offspring and friends, family, mom, dad, and other couples to understand, "Wow, that's a great marriage we should ASK THEM for tips on how their successful!" Always keep that fire burning! And only let people that will give moist wood to your fire into your life!

Respectfully, Mikea Faith Fulton

Please make a comment below to ask questions. 


Art compliments of Mikena Grace Fulton

Thursday, August 16, 2012

Wisdom

On a much lighter note than yesterday...

How wonderful to be wise, to analyze and interpret things. Wisdom lights up a person's face, softening its harshness. (Ecclesiastes 8:1, NLT)

Mike and I have been together for a really long time. during that time, thankfully, we've grown much wiser. 

Berries is one of my favorite foods. I eat strawberries, blueberries, blackberries, raspberries, elderberries, and acai every day. 

Mike likes meat.

Last night he texted me asking what was for dinner. I responded with acai bowls! Which in my opinion, is a wonderful mix of the above berries along with pumpkin seed granola, shredded coconut, bananas, and almond milk. I was so excited. He; however, was quite a bit less excited than I.

He texted and said he had to go to the Kona location. He had been in Honolulu all day and had just arrived at the airport. The airport is in between our house and our Kona location. This could only mean one thing! After taking care of business in Kona, he was gonna drive right by Queen K Tesoro to stop and get some of what he lovingly calls, “truck stop food” and I disgustingly refer to as "funk".

Wisdom point #1

He analyzed and decided instead of making comment about my choice in dinner, he opted to save himself by eating what he wanted at the convenience store!

Wisdom point #2

I interpreted his text and understood  I would gleefully be enjoying my acai bowl alone without asking him what he would be consuming for dinner!

Hence, wisdom lit up both our faces! It’s a win/win!